I think this might have something to do with the P&G commercial, "To Their Moms, They'll Always Be Kids". Ever since I saw this commercial, it just struck a cord with me. And every time I see it, I get goose bumps and a little teary eyed.
I actually think that I know a little of how they are feeling. And no, its not because jumping on furniture has become an Olympic sport. If this were the case my kids would totally take gold, hands down.
Its because recently I have been beaming with pride over Hayden's behavior in school.
For the most part Hayden likes school. He enjoys his friends and learning math and science. He also is really, really excited that he is learning to read. But one thing that he really struggles with is following the class room rules, like sitting still, waiting your turn, personal space and not following directions. To put it simply, Hayden and sitting still go to together as well as oil and water.
Hayden's teacher has a reward system set up to foster good behavior and following the class room rules. Each child starts out with a green card by their name every day and if they misbehave the card is turned to yellow and sometimes red. But if the child can keep their card green all day, then they can pick a prize from the prize chest.
Hayden often times comes home from school, saying that his card is always gets turned to yellow. I, of course, ask him why to which he answers, "Mom, yellow is just the bestest I can do. I try and try to keep my card green but I just can't."
I know that he wants to get a green card but I don't push him too hard. I know that he will get there. But everyday before school, Jeff and I just remind him to do his best and really, really try hard to keep his card green.
One morning, I found Hayden playing with this new little toy that I didn't recognize. I asked him about it. "I got it from the prize chest because I kept my card green all week!" He said with a smile from ear to ear.
I squealed with delight, did a little happy dance, grabbed him and gave him a huge hug!
I couldn't have been more proud if he had just won Olympic gold.






38 comments:
awww. kiddos - gotta love 'em.
That is exciting! Yay for Hayden!
I also cried at that commercial.
Go Hayden! You are right to take pride... these are the accomplishment seeds that grow into accomplishment trees when they are older. That was the weakest analogy EVER, but I couldn't hink of a better way to write it... :)
Yay for Hayden! I think that truly is as wonderful!!!
i can totally relate with you. my son can't follow "the rules" in preschool because "it's boring" to just sit still. did you give him a prize as well for getting the green cards?
I'm not even a Mom and I cry when I see the "to their Mom's" commercial! ha! Great job, litte Hayden!
Yay, Hayden! He must be so proud :)
Those mom/Olympic athlete commercials always make me cry. Always. :-)
Yay for Green!
Green = Gold!!
Hope you had a great weekend..
Lee
I JUST had this conversation with my husband about how it must feel and how proud we are of the simplest things. That is too funny! Great minds thinking alike I guess. :)
I totally understand. When I watched the Canadian mogul skiier win and saw his mom and {disabled} brother cheering on the stands, I blubbered like a baby.
When my kids have the smallest success, I am a mess.
awwwww**tear** that's so awesome!! i love when they have moments like that...our hearts just swell with pride for our babies!!
i'm telling you, he's a good boy...and a great hubs someday for b!!!
I would have done the happy dance too. He must have worked hard for it.
How sweet.:)
I haven't seen that commercial. Hrm. Maybe because I haven't been watching a lot of the Olympics. I prefer the Summer ones.
Yeah!! So happy for you. And my son is the same way so totally understand what you are going through and your joy.
Awesome picture by the way!
I love that commercial. Too cute. My daughter's second grade teacher had the same system, and when she was "blue" it was a good day! Good for Hayden!
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Yay! It's great that he is so proud of himself!
Way to go Hayden!
If I had a prize chest I would give you one too!
I know how hard these goals can be for our little ones to meet.
Yay for his green card!!! That's very exciting and we're all so proud of him!
Sounds like it was a gold medal-like week for him! I'm sure you are SO proud! Yay for Hayden!!
I know!! We applaud every little success because we know how far they have come. It is almost overwhelming sometimes:-)
Yay!! Any prize is great, no matter what it is!
That was so sweet. And that commercial is probably one of the bestest one running right now. :)
Way to encourage him without being pushy or negative about it! I think sometimes we are too hard on our kids, especially when they are doing their best!
Awww, you are such a sweet mom!!!
I know what you mean about crying through the Olympics. I'm exactly the same way! And actually, reading this post and knowing of the success your son realized made me cry too.
Woohoo Hayden!
He'll be winning medals in no time. As long as he gets to pick out a prize, too :)
Hooray! I love when kids get what they've worked really hard for!
Congratulations Hayden!
The behavior piece will come. B has settled down every year since his early terrible two's at 1 1/2-2 1/2.
He did go to a private Christian school in kindergarten and 1st grade. His card got changed to yellow a lot of days and he even got sent to the principal's office twice. We moved between 1st and 2nd grade. The more laid back structure of public school and B getting older combined he got in trouble a lot less. Now in 4th grade I don't know if he has even changed his card this year.
We definitely had to reinforce consequences at home with B and I stressed a bunch but it resolved over time. B's biggest issue was talking while the teacher was talking and talking during quiet work time.
Our children really have no ides how much we hurt when they hurt and how much rejoice when they accomplish what seems impossible.
Congratulations to Hayden!!
That is awesome!!!! Go Hayden! :-)
This is just so fantastic to read! Yeah hayden!!!
I am LOVING the photo you have here of him! Very cool! How'd you do it?
Ah, that's cute. Way to go Hayden.
This is the best story I've read in a long time! Awesome job, Hayden!!
Oh Jen, that is so wonderful. We have the same card system at my kids' school, and i have a "hayden" of my own. He wants to keep his card green but sometimes just can't help himself. HE's learning and I think he's motivating himself. I understand how proud you are of him, because I share the same pride I have for Linus. :-)
That is fantastic! Yay for Hayden!
Yeah Hayden...way to go!!! That's definitely something to be proud of!
I also watch the faces of the parents of the Olympians. It makes me all teary-eyed just seeing how proud they are!
Aww, so sweet! Great job, Hayden!!!
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